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New Post 2/7/2008 6:54 PM
  sarahemm
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same boat 

Hello all,

I'm in a similar boat as Lizzy (last post). I guess I just need to vent here.... I'm in a very challenging position yet in a career I thought I would enjoy. My job is so stressful and I'm not sleeping well, I am finding myself angry and tense at work, I work long hours, I get called during my vacations, and I have been searching for better jobs in my field and have not come up with anything. I have too much work and yet I feel so bored by it all. I am not enjoying the majority of my work. I'm exhausted. I feel stuck. I don't know if I should change careers, go back to school, or just go live in the wilderness!  Like Lizzy, I'm a musician and an artist. But with my current work, I feel so exhausted that I can't really pursue my music career at the same time. Also, I live in a rural area, far from city life and options. Life is too short to play this game. Then, I get depressed. I'm sure I need to see a counselor or something. This is a vicious cycle though. I'm not young, but I'm not old either (early 30s). I also had the wake up call/realization that I'm a "terrible" perfectionist. Double whammy. Any suggestions or thoughts for getting unstuck and moving forward? Thanks!

 
New Post 2/8/2008 7:30 PM
  sarahhickey
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Hello Sarah!

I can completely understand where you're coming from and my greatest suggestion is to read a book called 'The Artsist's Way' by Julia Cameron. It really helps you to get back in touch with that little creative spark that we all have as kids but seem to lose sight of when we get older. We all need a lot of tender loving care and this book is like a soothing balm to the soul. It really helped me and I hope it helps you too. Be kind to yourself and remember that there's so much magic creative energy inside of you that dying to get out and express. Start with small, playful steps. Love and joy to you!

 
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